Training for Professionals:  The Forgotten Boys deliver specialist training for professionals working with men who have been damaged by abuse and trauma — particularly those abused in institutions by staff of statutory services.

Our training is designed to equip professionals with trauma-informed skills, and to bring the hidden realities of men’s lives into focus through lived experience.


Core Modules:

  • Ghosts of Childhood Trauma and Abuse
    A powerful session exploring the lifelong impact of childhood institutional abuse, told through lived experience.
  • Rachel’s Story
    A story exposing systemic failures, neglect, and the human cost when services don’t listen.
  • Trauma and PTSD
    Understanding the effects of armed forces experience, bereavement, violence, and breakdowns on men’s lives.
  • Male Victims of Sexual and Domestic Abuse
    Naming and addressing the hidden abuse men face, and how professionals can respond safely.
  • Trauma-Informed Practice
    Practical skills to engage effectively with men who have lived through abuse and trauma.


Delivery:

  • One full training day (6.5 hours including breaks).
  • Maximum 25 participants per session.
  • Delivered monthly or commissioned as needed.
  • Facilitated by trainers with lived experience and professional practice.
  • Interactive learning, group discussion, and Q&A.


Who It’s For:

  • Social workers, probation, and justice staff.
  • Police and frontline officers.
  • Mental health and healthcare professionals.
  • Teachers, education, and youth workers.
  • Charities, housing, and community support services.
  • Volunteers and staff seeking CPD in trauma-informed practice.


Outcomes:

By the end of the training, participants will:

  • Feel confident responding to disclosures from male victims.
  • Understand the barriers men face in seeking help.
  • Embed trauma-informed practice into everyday roles.
  • Recognise the long-term effects of institutional abuse and trauma.


Costs:

  • £1,375 per training day (up to 25 participants).
  • £16,500 for a full annual package (12 days, includes evaluation and reporting).


To book or enquire about training for your team, contact hello@theforgottenboys.co.uk

 Professionals feedback


  • “Hadn't previously thought of using sports coaches to carry out early intervention / targeted youth support.” Mick, teacher.
  • “Useful for early intervention and from the point of view of someone who has experienced it.” Rowan, Community Police Officer.
  • “Heartfelt and useful to hear own experiences.” Sue, CSE Practitioner.
  • “I found the personal story was very impactful.” Kevin, Youth Support Worker.
  • “Powerful presentation. Food for thought for ways to further develop communities sport opportunities to offer wrap-around protection for our children.” Diana, Social Worker.
         “I thought the presentation was heart-warming and moving and inspired me to work in my local community.” Arron, Social Worker.
  • “Really helpful and thought provoking.” Lee, Teaching Assistant.


"Thank you, the Coaches who were in attendance have stated how the training was very eye opening. Very high quality training. We will be booking this training every year going forward and for new volunteers and coaches." Fraser Neill: CEO The Foundation For Good

Protecting Children in Sport: We have teamed up with The Boxing School of Great Britain to deliver this introductory course for individuals who have safeguarding responsibilities towards children in sport, including volunteers, employed staff, and those with regular contact with children within a sporting or community environment.

 

This course simplifies the complexities of child protection and provides comprehensive information for people who are new to working with children or those who wish to gain a better understanding of protecting children. Although it is heavily based around sport it covers everything you need to know if working with children. The course is aimed more at sports coaches.

The Ghosts of Childhood Trauma & Abuse: This training provides a profound exploration of childhood abuse and trauma, framed by the harrowing stories of a Forgotten Boy and Rachel. The Forgotten Boys’ narrative reveals the enduring consequences of institutional abuse, including struggles with addiction, PTSD, systemic neglect and abuse within the Borstal system. Rachel’s story highlights the tragic outcomes of inadequate support systems, culminating in her death—a stark reminder of the devastating impact of failed interventions.


By engaging with these powerful accounts, you will gain a deeper understanding of how childhood trauma shapes adult lives and learn how to implement effective, trauma-informed care. This event is essential for professionals seeking to enhance their ability to support those profoundly affected by childhood abuse.