Abuse, Trauma, and Vulnerabilities Referring into Service:

Navigating the complex terrain of abuse, trauma, and vulnerabilities can be a daunting journey, fraught with challenges and uncertainties. At The Forgotten Boys, we understand the profound impact these experiences can have on individuals and families, and we are committed to providing compassionate support and guidance to those in need.

Introducing Joe and Lewis, our dedicated professionals. They serve as invaluable sources of assistance and support for individuals seeking healing and recovery. They are  qualified therapists with lived experience in their fields of expertise.

Joe, with his wealth of experience and expertise, specializes in providing information and referrals for all therapies related to trauma recovery. He has a deep understanding of the struggles faced by individuals coping with suicidal thoughts and offers invaluable support to families navigating the pain of losing a loved one to suicide. For those in need of guidance on therapy and trauma recovery, Joe is here to offer compassionate assistance.

For trauma and suicide therapies contact Joe: joe.langley@theforgottenboys.co.uk / 07935 552187 

Lewis serves as the primary point of contact for information and referrals concerning abuse,. His extensive knowledge and compassionate approach make him a trusted ally for individuals grappling with issues such as sexual abuse, historic child abuse, abuse within the Borstal System, child sexual exploitation, alcohol and drug addiction, and homelessness. Lewis is also first point of contact for men who suffered within the Borstal System If you are in need of support or guidance in any of these areas, Lewis is here to help.

For abuse and exploitation,  contact Lewis: lewis.gell@theforgottenboys.co.uk / 07359 494999

Sharing knowledge with Practitioners and Professionals

The Forgotten Boys offer their expertise and share their lived experiences with committed Practitioners and Professionals, who would want to improve practice and increase their knowledge of abuse, the exploitation of children, suicide and trauma. Our core work on the abuse of children in Correctional Institutions was learned the hardest way of all, by living it, every horrible, nasty memory. touch, smell, act, and face a constant reminder of a childhood ripped apart that cannot and must not ever be forgotten.

Because child abuse destroys the heart and soul of the adult The Forgotten Boys have lived experience in homelessness; addictions, poor metal health, broken relationships, coercion and controlling behaviours, and many other poor life choices or by circumstance. We add a valued voice, to service practice and policy

The Forgotten Boys help improve practitioner and organizational service in: Policy, Practice, Delivery, Training, Grant / funding input

 Professionals feedback

• “Hadn't previously thought of using sports coaches to carry out early intervention / targeted youth support.” Mick, teacher.
• “Useful for early intervention and from the point of view of someone who has experienced it.” Rowan, Community Police Officer.
• “Heartfelt and useful to hear own experiences.” Sue, CSE Practitioner.
• “I found the personal story was very impactful.” Kevin, Youth Support Worker.
• “Powerful presentation. Food for thought for ways to further develop communities sport opportunities to offer wrap-around protection for our children.” Diana, Social Worker.
  “I thought the presentation was heart-warming and moving and inspired me to work in my local community.” Arron, Social Worker.
• “Really helpful and thought provoking.” Lee, Teaching Assistant.

Some of The Forgotten Boys have worked with, added value or had input with the following:

• The NWG Network
• Barnardo's
• The Police
• Local Children's Safeguarding Boards
• The Home Office
• NHS CAMHS
• The Office of National Statistics
• The Centre of Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse
• The NSPCC
• Edinburgh University
• Greenwich University
• The FFG Foundation
• England Boxing
• SARC
• and a wide variety of sports clubs and grassroots charities